Surprisingly, My Father’s Son

I’m reading Alan Cummings’s memoir, Not My Father’s Son. It is a beautifully written book that details the complicated and painful relationship that Cummings had with his abusive and angry father. I’m enjoying the book tremendously.

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Hunkeypoo

The man I am in a relationship with today and I were introduced by a friend one evening at a men’s Meetup monthly dinner about a year and a half ago. We sat in the back of the restaurant at a table talking and eating. I thought he was sexy, cute, and probably way too young for me. I was surprised to learn later that he was in his early 50’s and not his early 40’s as I had assumed.

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Building Relationships, Slowly

The Marriage Equality movement, with the focus group, tested message, Love is Love, is powerful. Young gay men just coming out today are entering a world where love, intimacy, and commitment are vividly made real between two men. 

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