My Life: Vignettes Over Time – Chapter I

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It is hard to know where to begin when writing a personal history.  Do I start as a small child already feeling different than my peers, or do I begin later when I first began to understand my attraction to men?  Let me tell this story through a series of vignettes over time. Continue reading

Two Versions of Myself

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I facilitate peer support meetings for men who are gay, bi or questioning and have been married or involved with a woman. In a recent meeting, a man said he felt that there were “two versions of myself”. I felt very much the same for most of my adult life. Continue reading