Last night a hurricane blew through New England. Even though the center of the storm was far off at sea, we had high winds and heavy rain. I went up to bed early but decided to check out Grindr and Scruff to see who was online. Continue reading
The easy electronic communication between gay, bi, married, and all other men, looking to find one another gets easier each year. At the risk of dating myself, when I was in graduate school in the early 1980s I played online with a service called The Source and later CompuServe. Both had gay chat areas. While the world has added pictures and GPS locations, the content of the chats is not too different than what I wrote 35 years ago. Continue reading
Finding another gay man when I was a teenager and into my twenties meant one of three things: looking in the personals section of an underground newspaper; going to a bar, or cruising a park or restroom. None of these I found particularly attractive. Continue reading
