Bears, Muscle Bears, Cubs and Other Tribes

Bears, Muscle Bears, Cubs. Bear Week at Provincetown. This town changed almost overnight. The men on the street today are primarily hairy, bearded, larger than when we arrived five days ago. Trying to uncover who I am as a gay man is an interesting journey. I find the bear men, who are in reasonable shape, very sexy. The men who are overweight or over muscled don’t do much for me. The beards, tattoos, piercings are all a turn on. At the same time these men seem foreign, other. They don’t fit into my world comfortably. They meet some desire out of an adult video that I don’t feel I can have or be part of. Continue reading